By the way, you forgot the poll..............
Here's my thoughts
I'm calling it a draw at the moment. The Vulcans have never fought a race as naturally aggressive as the MU humans are, and with it's slave races, it's got greater numbers and resources to work with. The TE has no problem whatsoever with stripmining a planet if needed, and will throw away countless lives to achieve an important enough victory. Now, this is only speculation on my part, but I feel that the TE weapons would be stronger that her Starfleet counterparts due to it's warlike nature, but still not up to the Vulcan level. I think that the the TE would and could throw away ships at a 2 or 3 to 1 loss and still keep the Vulcans from gaining any serious ground even with the High Commands superior ships and weapons.
I liken it to the Wolf Pack fighting the Bear.
They say that in the Army,
the women are mighty fine.
They look like Phyllis Diller,
and walk like Frankenstein.